Third Talk: See It Clearly


Now that you’ve let go, now that you’ve stopped gripping the problem so tightly, look at it. Really look at it.

Not through the haze of frustration. Not through the weight of expectations. Just as it is.

And suddenly, something shifts. The big, tangled mess shrinks into something simpler. A few pieces out of place. A few things that, actually, can be adjusted.

Maybe not a total fix. Maybe not perfection. But 10% better? 5% better? Absolutely.

Because when you’re not stuck in the cycle of resistance, you can see what’s real. What’s actionable. What’s worth your energy. And when you focus there—on what you can shift, instead of what you wish was different—momentum starts.

And momentum is everything.

So step forward. Tweak one thing. Make it just a little better. Then another. And another.

This is how change happens. Not in one giant leap, but in small, clear steps.